Saturday, May 23, 2009

Idealistic love?


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Principia Comica

Love as action is something that needs to begin in the heart. Sometimes in my on the go tendencies, it is hard for me to stop and contemplate things before I jump in to action. My husband on the other hand is great at being thoughtful and contemplative. I honestly think the difference in how Ian and I process things is one reason we make such a good team. We balance each other out. Over the last 30 days or so, we and a group of online friends have been reading and digesting "40 Days living the Jesus Creed" in community.

On Day 30 of the book the topic was titled "Love is...". This quote on page 153 really nailed things for me.

"Real love, the love for your neighbor that the Jesus Creed teaches, is what happens between two or more people in concrete reality. That is why what Paul says is so important: "Love is patient (with others);love is kind (to others); love is not envious (of others) or boastful (in front of others) or arrogant ( in the face of others) or rude ( to others)" These are virtues needed in the ordinary details of ordinary life." (McKnight, pg 153)


I'm a self-admitted idealist. When the picture of perfection does not come to fruition, I get upset - off center - and find myself seeking comfort and balance.

Real life does not often fit my perfect ideal or expectations...yet in difficulty, in challenge, and in conflict; love plugged into life will make a way.

In the off-center, unideal reality of life, holding on to love working in the midst of uncertainty is the lesson this idealistic extrovert is trying to learn.

Friday, May 22, 2009

Enough to share

What is Enough?


Enough, by Will Samson is a book that asks questions for those who seek contentment in an Age of excess. With all the privilege and possession I have in my life and world, how is it that at times I still feel I'm missing something? It's in reading his book that I find that I'm not the only one asking these kinds of questions.



"We were living the model American Christian life. We had nice kids, great jobs, fun cars and still found time and a bit of money for the church. Why wasn't I happy?" (Samson, pg 23)


As a result of Samson's honesty, I discovered a sense of freedom to ask my own questions concerning my search for contentment. In all the striving for possessions, what is being lost in the exchange? What is the human cost of consumption? To break it down further, how does unending consumption effect the heart, mind, body and soul of humanity?

It was refreshing to hear Sampson's perspective in struggling to resolve the conflicts that over-consumption instigate. Many of his questions, echo my uneasy feeling when intangible needs are attempted to be met with tangible resources. How do we discern what is physically enough and if we feel we are to entangled by material things, how do we take steps to become untangled?

Enough, allows the reader to wrestle through their own questions of balancing consumption and contentment, and with Samson's help - begins to reconnect the reader with opportunities for change in daily life.

" Christianity includes a implicit call to embody our faith, to be that which we believe...Imagine the transformation in our lives, our communities, our congregations, if we began to literally offer ourselves as 'living sacrifices' and did so graciously." (Samson, pg 41-42)


In resetting the reality of over-consumption in perspective to the example of Jesus words and life, Samson helps to strip away the attitudes self-focused therapeutic faith or nationalistic entitlement that can muddy the focus of the gospel. It is only in moving beyond seeking our own well-being and a sense of entitlement because of the fortune of where we were born, that we can begin to sort out to live out a sacrificial life lived to benefit others. In looking to others needs, we can begin to better understand and live and understand Christ's humility, that all his followers are called to live in. If our life's work as Christians is to foster the restoration of earth as it is in heaven, then we should look at the challenge written in this paraphrase of Amos 5:18-27 as it is recounted in Samson's book.

"Seek the welfare of your community. As people in exile, your future and the future of the place you live are one and the same. So make you world more whole, that you might be more holy.
And live in love. I had hoped you would get that message when my Son joined humanity and demonstrated sacrificial love in action. But you are so worried about his return that you forget why he came. Be a people shaped by the model of Jesus, not just the prospect of escaping the world I have asked you to help heal."(Samson, 63)


Beyond Hot Buttons

In a time where hot button topics like debates on sexual orientation and abortion take the front seat in discussions and perspective in Christian life, I feel that people are spiritually stunted when all their discussions and perspective of faith are based on where they stand only in regard to these and other hot button topics. To develop greater roots of faith, Christians should, " As disciples of Christ..(followers) should be rooted in the teachings of Christ" (Samson, 66); instead of remaining content to debate and argue the hot topic of the week. The roots of faith are ones that need to be developed by greater understanding of Christ's life and how to follow his example and live it out in reality.


Samson challenges the reader to compare their own Christian experience to see Jesus' example of reaching out to those who are marginalized or excluded and realign their lives to his example. " The very uniqueness of Jesus is the refusal of exclusivity." (Samson, pg 70)

In his short ministry, Jesus also spent a great deal of time restoring, healing, and creating. Wouldn't it seem wise for those who follow Christ to be at work restoring, healing and and creating as well?

One of the most challenging statements Samson makes is his reporting that:
"Study after study shows that the average Christian in America is statistically indistinguishable fro someone from another faith, or of no faith. The culture seems to have an attitude of "eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow we die," and we join in the party. But is this the posture for a follower of Jesus?" (Samson, pg 84)


In a world where Jesus healed, restored and created; wouldn't it seem logical that those who follow Jesus be involved in the same kind of activity?

How can we live?

My own questions and feeling of discontent with the status quo of my own consumption makes me desire to seek out a depth of living in my own life that I sometimes find missing. I have this need for roots that I can't find from another shopping trip to the mall or another pair of shoes to almost fit under my bed. In addition to my own desire for roots, I desire to help my own children in their search for life's center. I desire for them to also understand that contentment or happiness is something that can't be purchased.

The book Enough, does not stop at the point of pointing out the weak spots or the tendency to fill our lives with more and more material things. Samson takes the time to suggest some practical ways of living a life of fullness in Christ while on the earth. He suggests that practices of expressing thanks, getting our hands dirty by growing a garden and eating with each other will help to slow us down and develop some greatly needed roots to center our otherwise frantic lives. He continues to discuss the reality of developing greater responsibility for the earth, the economy, our communities and begin to foster daily prayer practices that help to show ways of living lives of faith that breathe restoration, healing and creativity to the world around us.

What if instead of consuming our world, we were consumed by the passion of Christ in a way that we would become deep wells of life that could satisfy all of those around us that are thirsty? Imagine if we were the wells of refreshment, the seasoning of salt, the lantern of light that God calls us as followers of Christ to be. When I think of that world, I think that would be a place where there would be enough resources to share - for everyone. Imagine a world with no more thirst or hunger. That world sounds like Earth as it is in Heaven. That, most certainly, would be enough.

This blog post is a response/review of the book Enough, by Will Samson. By participating with the Ooze Viral Bloggers Group, you can have the opportunity to read and review one free book a month. This is my first review with this blogging group. If you are interested in joining in go to The Ooze Viral Bloggers and register today.


Thursday, May 21, 2009

Dot to dot with The Golden jewel of a rule


The Golden Rule can be surmised as this,"Treat others as you want to be treated." Over the last month or so, I've been thinking a great deal about The Golden Rule in relation to my own relationship with God and others. In the book by Scot McKnight, 40 Days living the Jesus Creed, he explains more about the Golden Rule from Jesus' perspective.

"I used to think that the Golden Rule was pablum, food for a child. I also thought that when I grew up spiritually, I'd put away pablum and eat meat. The older I get, the more experience I have in the church and with Christians, and the longer I seek to follow the Jesus Creed (Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all of your strength and with all of your mind.)..., the more the Golden Rule looks like the real meat and the supposed deep things look like a commentary on the Golden Rule."(McKnight,109)


Our challenge as followers of Jesus is to actively an unbiasedly live the Golden Rule with EVERYONE.

McKnight explains this further in stating, " Not just with those you love and like, or with your neighbors and friends. Live the Golden Rule with everyone. Not just on Sunday or in the evening when you are at home, or on the weekends when you have free time, but always: when you get up and when you go to work and when you are in a scrap with someone and when you are stressed... Those who live by Jesus' principles live a different kind of life."
(pg 110 - 40 days living the Jesus Creed).

Matthew 22:37-40, resonates in the Golden Rule, in regard to living holistically by encompassing the foundations of loving God, ourselves and others and finding was to live these commands out in daily life.

Jesus replied: “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbour as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”

By breaking all the commandments down to these condensed principles, Jesus helps to connect the dots of hearing a command and carrying it out. It is easy to get sidetracked in the various processes of living out faith in a way that would honor Christ. Sometimes it is most difficult to know where to start. I think that is why he broke these points down into something that could be easily remembered.

Love God with all of your being and love your neighbor(whomever that may be) as yourself.

God help us to connect the dots of principle into practice in our daily lives. May we live changed and different lives. We need our lives to be nourished by your example so we can radiates your love to those around us; in all situations and all relationships. In everything do unto others, to self and to You, what we would want done to us.

God give us the strength to be Golden.

Image from Idioms by Kids.

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Read to me, Garrison


The Writer's Almanac is a daily email feed that comes to my email inbox. It's a lovely way to learn about authors of days past, new writers of today and even read or listen to Garrison read (as only Garrison can)a poem to you every day.

Listening to Garrison read the poem Durham Wheat reminds me of sitting in my favorite college English class, and having the privilege of my professor sharing writings that touched her heart and expanded my literary vision.

Take a moment, and click on the link to hear Garrison read to you too. Let the words wash over you and give you a vision for where and who you are today.
Durum wheat

by Lisa Martin-Demoor

Memory at its finest lacks corroboration
—no photographs, no diaries—
nothing to pin the past on the present with, to make it stick.
Just because you've got this idea
of red fields stretching along the tertiary roads
of Saskatchewan, like blazing, contained fires —
just because somewhere in your memory
there's a rust-coloured pulse
taking its place among canola yellow
and flax fields the huddled blue of morning azures—
just because you want to
doesn't mean you can
build a home for that old, peculiar ghost.

Someone tells you you've imagined it,
that gash across the ripe belly of summer,
and for a year, maybe two, you believe them.
Maybe you did invent it, maybe as you leaned,
to escape the heat, out the Pontiac's backseat window
you just remembered it that way
because you preferred the better version.

Someone tells you this.
But what can they know of faith?
To ask you to leave behind this insignificance.
This innocence that can't be proved: what the child saw
of the fields as she passed by, expecting nothing.

You have to go there while there's still time.
Back to the red flag of that field, blazing in the wind.
While you're still young enough to remember
a flame planted along a road. While you're still
seeing more than there is to see.


"Durum wheat" by Lisa Martin-Demoor, from One Crow Sorrow. © Brindle & Glass, 2008. Reprinted with permission

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

St. Teresa of Lisieux has the perfect words


Image of St. Teresa of Lisieux found at Blue like Elvis.

May today there be peace with you.
May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be.
May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith.
May you use those gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you.
May you be content knowing you are a child of God.
Let this presence settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love.
It is there for each and every one of you.


There is so much in this prayer that resonates with me lately.
In my pressing for for purpose and reaching for 'rightness' in this leg of the journey; trust, awareness, contentment, dancing, praise and love sound like the perfect fit.

I needed to reminded that God and all this are there for you,the whole world and me too.

Peace to your heart.

Here is another quote by wise Teresa:

We must be firmly convinced that if we fight courageously and do not allow ourselves to be beaten, we will get what we want. No matter how small our gains, they will make us very rich. Do not be afraid that the Lord who has called us to drink of this spring will allow us to die of thirst.

What are you thirsty for?

Monday, May 18, 2009

SWB: Life without the bread makes a lousy sandwich



Even though I'm posting late on Monday, it is still Sleeping with Bread Day. SWB day is the day that I look over the past week of living and access the moments and things that both took away from and gave me life throughout the week.

For the sake of the hour I'm writing today, I'd prefer to simplify with a list (and some explanations) of the -'s and +'s of the last seven days. Hmmm... +'s and -'s. Sounds like the idea for a start of a song.
Maybe so.

- I did a terrible job of working out my work schedule for the last month or so. I added too many extra events (my own fault)and realized very early in the week that it was catching up to me. Why do I insist in filling time so much, or penciling in things without taking into account the investment: personal, physical, timely, and emotional that doing that results in? I need to work on this.

+ I'm so thankful for two volunteers that have come aboard to help me with the youth work at my church. It's wonderful to have the hands to help, the ears to listen, and the voice that help to teach the students and me as well.

+ I made some adjustments to my plans in the next week or so and I'm happy to say that I will be taking my first long weekend off in about eight months or so. It will be good to have the break after running in so many directions recently.


- It has been hard for me to think about, but grief over the passing of a my friend last November keeps sneaking up on me. I keep wondering if I made the most of the times we talked.

+ Knowing that I'm not alone in this sadness helps. Sunday was (although I was not aware of it consciously at the time) the six month anniversary of his passing. I stopped on a whim (or what I thought was one) to say hello to a common friend we had and he later sent me a text message stating that that day was the anniversary date. I had goose bumps on reading that message.

- Sometimes I don't follow my gut like I should. I try to shrug it off or just get to busy to respond to those nudges and prompts to take this or that action.

+But I'm glad that I did and went to visit that other friend. He needed to know someone cared and I needed to show some care in the midst of my own sadness.
Things work out well when I listen to those 'holy nudges', as I call them.

Why do these moments of synchronicity still surprise me after all these years?

Synchronicity helps to make a way even in the crummy moments and points to bread that sustains. Only, I need the eyes to see and the ears to hear those prompts towards synchronicity.

Give me the eyes to see and the ears to hear. Give me the brave heart to take the steps that need to be taken and when to goose bump moments come; let me soak every single chill and bump in. I don't want to miss a one.

+ Free bear hugs

+ Unity art

+ Kids that shout, giggle and help you with a community clean up project

+ Sunshine, blue sky and green trees on a Monday.
+ Email messages that make you tear up with joy.
+ Coming to a solution of a problem.
+ Spending a few hours at the park on a sunny afternoon.

+ Sharing an ice cream sundae with your best friend.
+ Joy, love, peace, patience, kindness and so much more.

This is my week of bread, the crumbs, the slices, the whole loaf.
Life wouldn't be much of a sandwich without the bread would it?
Thank God for the bread.

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Today is like a peppermint patty

Anyone remember the old Peppermint Patty commercials...


Today is a brisk NY spring day, as it's only about 43 degrees here. Besides the unusual chill in the air for late May, quality of light is amazing and the shy is clear and blue.

Although it a little on the chilly side today, the light and color with it make it an altogether refreshing day - just like a peppermint patty!